Good day, dear guests blog! Full and a happy relationship can not be imagined without the intimate life. To cater to the women in the bed depends on your mental balance and behavior.
But, why in the more harmonious, at first glance, the relationships, sometimes the lack of sexual desire? In reality, the causes of this phenomenon is more than enough. Here plays a very important role as a physiological factor and psychological.
The lack of sexual desire in women, this is not a reason to blame your spouse. Today I will help you to understand why this happens.
During orgasm, physiological point of view, there is a reduction of the uterus and of the vagina, which ends with the satisfaction. The partners may experience throughout a sexual act of one or several orgasms.
If a woman cold in bed, you do not experience any sensation, then call in the frigid. Some frigid women is observed a complete aversion to sexual in the process.
Libido - it's called the sexual desire. Its flourishing falls on the age of about twenty years, sometimes earlier.
The sexual life of the partners has its origin with the desire that is generated in the brain. The stronger sex is received by the visual of the image, next to the beautiful part of the population, this is related with the romance and the action. After you receive the desire of excitement, and then begins the process of the surroundings and the end of the orgasm. The more serious the problem, the greater will be the more difficult of the therapy.
Why did you lose the desire of women?
I have already spoken of the reasons for lack of sexual desire are divided into two categories. Let's look at the physiological side:
- An error in the hormone system. By the libido responds to the hormone under the name of the testosterone. Today there is a tendency to its reduction. The female part of the population, decrease in libido can be due to the influence of the hormone prolactin. In the period of lactation in women is observed a loss of sexual desire.
- Age processes. The loss or weakening of the tilt occurs in women during menopause. At this time the functioning of the ovaries starts to fall and, consequently, estrogens are produced in small quantities. The same process is painful in relation to the lack of lubrication. Many stop having sexual relations, continuing to live well and be happy.
- Pathological state. This includes conditions such as diabetes, diseases of the organs of the urinary system, and many others.
- The style of life. The nicotine, the alcohol, the drugs inhibit the libido. Affect the nerve endings in the brain, which are responsible for libido. On the priority of the satisfaction of habits.
- The reduction of the musculature of the vagina, which can be painful for both partners. Often the cause of this state serves that has migrated from sexual violence.
- Sexual of the disease. Often create discomfort in the area of external intimate organs and the vagina.
The psychological aspect
Women often do not there is a desire in relationship with the bass migrated situations, such as, the failure of the first sexual relations, violence, the birth of a child.
Many of the women who were brought up very strictly, the shame of appearing in your feelings and emotions to the partner. They are afraid of seems to dissolute, etc, there are Often cases in which after marriage, women have sex only in the dark or in the clothing. You will lose the desire because of the hidden offense to the ex-partner.
In the beginning of knowledge and, in principle, the relations between human beings, there is the interest and strong attraction. This promotes a chemical process in the brain, which reinforces the passion and grows the desire. All this leads to the basis of the sex and the process without the need to get more of the activation of desires.
The problem of personality, which emerged as a result of the tax opinion of society, of parents and of other people, and also as a result of a psychological trauma in the time can be superimposed a strong attraction to a partner. But with time, that spark is lost, and that the problems are returned.
Permanent conflicts and disagreements between the spouses, which arise during the whole life together, play an important role in the loss of sexual desire. Some people tend to a long time of have in itself the resentment that, due to the completely disables the sexual attraction.
For the beautiful part of the population it is important to receive compliments, flowers and gifts, even after the wedding and many years of life in common. Women have a huge need in the development of the emotional part of the relationship before sexual contact. Men such necessity appears then of the sexual relationship.
Love and sex must be in harmony in relationships. If a pair is more prevalent platonic and spiritual connection, then the sexual desire by going on a second plane, and vice versa.
Over the years, between people arises the trust, the understanding, but suffers an intimate life. In their relationships with men will be private, in this case, they may have the desire of intimacy with someone else, be faithful to your partner.
Plays an important role also the physical attraction. After getting married, women and men should not leave the care for. Must comply with the rules of hygiene, monitor weight, hairstyle, makeup, style, clothes, skin condition, etc
In relationships, where you don't know what it is to be inspired by the look, facial or body movements, the smell of the couple, there is no satisfaction. Distinguish certain parts of dna that create the attraction between the partners. So, most of us are drawn sexually to those individuals who have a unusual and unusual, for us, a style of dress and of conduct, which we like very much. But the interests and points of view about life among these people does not match.
Troubleshooting
Women may not always understand the absence of your desire. The lady will ask a lot of questions about how not to bring the marriage to divorce. For someone that the best solution will be the visit to a psychologist or sex therapist.
The specialist will conduct the study, will talk with you, examine the problem from all angles, to establish the cause of the loss of sexual desire, and to find an effective way to solve this problem. This can be ordinary, of the query, different therapeutic techniques of manipulation, societies, singing and dancing motor of the action, and so on. The professional shall determine, on the that the client needs to work on.
The treatment of the descent of libido is a difficult one. If you were able to install properly the cause, then you need therapy of the main disease.
In any case, it is useful to begin to lead a healthy life style, stop consuming alcohol, sleep well and be in a state of tranquility of spirit. All of these actions focus on the improvement of the hormone in a natural way. I've achieved excellent results in this plan, so I know what I say.
It is useful to perform a series of exercises intended to strengthen the coccygeal muscles and the muscles of the pelvis. This stimulates the excitation by strengthening the circulation of the blood. Also kegel exercises every day can make for this purpose.
And, finally, we will analyze is another way of achieving the sexual interest of the partner in a natural way. You simply have to practice yoga.
As is known, all the yoga exercises, accompanied by a deep and conscious breathing. Before you go to sleep a series of exercises to practice breathing properly, and after, the same breath of the belly use in the moment of intimacy, you will be amazed how it works!
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